Mohandas K. Gandhi (1869-1948), political and ...

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“We must become the change we want to see.” Mahatma Gandhi

Top Ten Reasons for Change Resistance, Rebellion or Objection.

In alcoholics, addicts or co-dependents these may be deliberate or subconscious – part of the denial syndrome.

  1. THE RISK OF CHANGE IS SEEN AS GREATER THAN THE RISK OF STANDING STILL
  2. PEOPLE FEEL CONNECTED TO OTHER PEOPLE WHO ARE IDENTIFIED WITH THE OLD WAY
  3. PEOPLE HAVE NO ROLE MODELS FOR THE NEW ACTIVITY
  4. PEOPLE FEAR THEY LACK THE COMPETENCE TO CHANGE
  5. PEOPLE FEEL OVERLOADED AND OVERWHELMED
  6. PEOPLE HAVE A HEALTHY SKEPTICISM AND WANT TO BE SURE NEW IDEAS ARE SOUND
  7. PEOPLE FEAR HIDDEN AGENDAS AMONG WOULD-BE REFORMERS
  8. PEOPLE FEEL THE PROPOSED CHANGE THREATENS THEIR NOTIONS OF THEMSELVES
  9. PEOPLE ANTICIPATE A LOSS OF STATUS OR QUALITY OF LIFE
  10. PEOPLE GENUINELY BELIEVE THAT THE PROPOSED CHANGE IS A BAD IDEA
  • change is good
  • change is inevitable
  • change scares people
  • the only constant in life is change.

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