Why Women Have Sex
Top 50 Reasons Why Women Have Sex
When drinking or drugging one has sex, uses sex and does sex for various OK or not so OK reasons.
Recovery from alcoholism/addiction increases sexuality and desire.
This list can help you decide why you had sex, and why you may have sex in the future. A key question is ‘Will the reason I’m having sex enhance my serenity – sobriety?’ Or, ‘Will I be disturbed by this action?’.
This study is very important to modern society. This is especially so since the sexual revolution opened peoples minds to a broader range of sexuality and sexual expression.
The study;
Historically, the reasons people have sex have been assumed to be few in number and simple in nature-
- to reproduce,
- to experience pleasure, or
- to relieve sexual tension.
Several theoretical perspectives suggest that motives for engaging in sexual intercourse may be larger in number and psychologically complex in nature. Our first study used a procedure that identified 237 expressed reasons for having sex.
Here are the top 50 reasons women have sex;
- I was attracted to the person
- I wanted to experience the physical pleasure
- It feels good
- I wanted to show my affection to the person
- I wanted to express my love for the person
- I was sexually aroused and wanted the release
- I was ‘‘horny’’
- It’s fun
- I realized I was in love
- I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment’’
- I wanted to please my partner
- I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy)
- I wanted the pure pleasure
- I wanted to achieve an orgasm
- It’s exciting, adventurous
- I wanted to feel connected to the person
- The person’s physical appearance turned me on
- It was a romantic setting
- The person really desired me
- The person made me feel sexy
- The person caressed me
- It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship
- I wanted to become one with another person
- It just happened
- I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex
- I wanted the experience
- I wanted the adventure/excitement
- The person had an attractive face
- The person was a good kisser
- I wanted to intensify my relationship
- My hormones were out of control
- I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions
- I wanted to feel loved
- The person had a desirable body
- I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion
- I wanted to communicate at a ‘‘deeper’’ level
- I was curious about sex
- It was a special occasion
- The person was intelligent
- I wanted to say ‘‘I’ve missed you’’
- I wanted to keep my partner satisfied
- I got ‘‘carried away’’
- The opportunity presented itself
- The person had a great sense of humor
- I wanted to improve my sexual skills
- I was curious about my sexual abilities
- The person seemed self-confident
- I wanted to make up after a fight
- I was drunk
- I was turned on by the sexual conversation
Research From; Cindy M. Meston & David M. Buss, Why Humans Have Sex, Arch Sex Behav (2007) 36:477-507
Tomorrow – Why Men Have Sex.
See also Why People have Sex
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